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njucks

Gambia
1131 Posts

Posted - 17 Nov 2006 :  23:22:15  Show Profile Send njucks a Private Message
quote:
Originally posted by kondorong

whats going on. Can you translate please.



lol, Kondonrong german is very difficult. but if spoken you can listen carefully and it can sound like english. read Serenata's text in english and you'll see what i mean. its just a short cut

du sprichst Deutsch= you speak german
Ein falsches Wort und = a false word and ..
hast du ein blaues Auge = and you have a blue eye

thats all i can do, but basically Serenata is threatening him
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LEMON TIME



Afghanistan
1295 Posts

Posted - 18 Nov 2006 :  12:21:54  Show Profile Send LEMON TIME a Private Message
No comment on Seratata as Momodou might lock this Topic.The Germans aye

There is no god but Allah
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kobo



United Kingdom
7765 Posts

Posted - 19 Nov 2006 :  10:56:49  Show Profile Send kobo a Private Message
Even if they use Islam, ISLAM is very clear with the conditions and situations to do what is acceptable and reasonable to do for social and moral reasons.

What are the positions of other FAITHS AND RELIGIOUS PRACTICE on this topic? Hindu,Humanist, Buddism, cristianity, Jeudaism, Satanism and anything please? What about other sociologist and philosophers including Karl Max etc?

Its only Islam refered, scrutinised and challenged with modern day practise. ISLAM is a source of knowledge more than all the drips of water that cannot all be drain from the OCEANS.

Who brought it? Muhamad(s.a.w) through Abraham(s.a.w)and compilation of the holy Quaraan is more than all the great philoshers of this world.

Edited by - kobo on 19 Nov 2006 10:57:29
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Eve



Gambia
344 Posts

Posted - 19 Nov 2006 :  11:01:17  Show Profile Send Eve a Private Message
quote:
Originally posted by Momodou

quote:
Originally posted by Eve
Thanks momodou the that, but look properly, nor of those men doing what is Islam said the men should do to those wives, they only accepted taking another wife, for their good, but the equality is not there, women are suffering like hell and they seeing that, but easy for them to ignore it. And killing us saying that is the Islam law.

The only thing the men satisfied those two or three wives is to lied to them, and sychologically the women has no choices, sometimes they knew that their men is not right, but they ignore, and try to profit the life.

Eve, Some of those marriages are not really based on the real teachings of Islam. I was told by a muslim scholar that one should get the permission from the first wife before marrying a second wife. How many men ask their wifes before they marry the second wife?

Marriag contracts are allowed in Islam, so one could write down certain agreements such as "no second wife without approval from the first wife".

By the way, "Polygamy is a very ancient practice found in many human societies." Read http://listserv.icors.org/SCRIPTS/WA-ICORS.EXE?A2=ind0403&L=GAMBIA-L&P=R26103&I=-3



That why i said they only used Islam the have another wife. their children never got love, b'cos the woman is trying to satisfied his man to win his love and another wife doing the same, so the children are always unhappy, if the woman is hopeless, she said am there for my children. Guys you really know what am trying to say, there is no secret.

gambian
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Eve



Gambia
344 Posts

Posted - 19 Nov 2006 :  11:09:23  Show Profile Send Eve a Private Message
quote:
Originally posted by kobo

Even if they use Islam, ISLAM is very clear with the conditions and situations to do what is acceptable and reasonable to do for social and moral reasons.

What are the positions of other FAITHS AND RELIGIOUS PRACTICE on this topic? Hindu,Humanist, Buddism, cristianity, Jeudaism, Satanism and anything please? What about other sociologist and philosophers including Karl Max etc?

Its only Islam refered, scrutinised and challenged with modern day practise. ISLAM is a source of knowledge more than all the drips of water that cannot all be drain from the OCEANS.

Who brought it? Muhamad(s.a.w) through Abraham(s.a.w)and compilation of the holy Quaraan is more than all the great philoshers of this world.



Kobo, then they can complete the mission and do exactly how the Islam asked to do it, as they accepted.

gambian
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Eve



Gambia
344 Posts

Posted - 19 Nov 2006 :  11:21:09  Show Profile Send Eve a Private Message
quote:
Originally posted by mbay

So is not possible to get more loves in (I don’t means of waves) but simple loves like liking more people in once heart?
I‘ve only one and I wish to die only with her in me as wife. But every one is not like me.


quote:
Originally posted by Eve

How are you guys making three women in yr heart at one time? this is what i will never believe in, i can't understand men with two to three wives, he will never be able to make both of them happy.[/i]





Mbay are you sure with that, b'cos i've seen lot of men said the same and now people counting their wives. If u are sure, then good luck and wish God help u with it not to look for another one.

gambian
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mbay

Germany
1007 Posts

Posted - 19 Nov 2006 :  16:49:51  Show Profile Send mbay a Private Message
I've the same mind today as it was since last 16 years
and i see no reason why i should change it!
as i said, since from the beginning we didn't comes together just as couple but as well as partners, which is hard to understand even for my own mother in law .i knew what she is for me maybe i'm too weak of bringing another one but it also good so to be a weaker in this case, for me.i am thinking not just the one voice we have today but the respect we will loss for one another, even as cousin (which some time making us forget the seriousness between us)but when it comes to the point we all will stand up to it and i wish through the willing of Allah to last it for us but i as said we can't be the same and that is okay so.

quote:
Originally posted by Eve

quote:
Originally posted by mbay

So is not possible to get more loves in (I don’t means of waves) but simple loves like liking more people in once heart?
I‘ve only one and I wish to die only with her in me as wife. But every one is not like me.


quote:
Originally posted by Eve

How are you guys making three women in yr heart at one time? this is what i will never believe in, i can't understand men with two to three wives, he will never be able to make both of them happy.[/i]





Mbay are you sure with that, b'cos i've seen lot of men said the same and now people counting their wives. If u are sure, then good luck and wish God help u with it not to look for another one.

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Santanfara



3460 Posts

Posted - 19 Nov 2006 :  21:51:14  Show Profile  Visit Santanfara's Homepage Send Santanfara a Private Message
there are a lot of things that islam permit but the men folks are'nt doing them. they single out marrying many wife's just out of desire. i am not against it ,it is allah who permits it ,so my personal judgement cannot overide the qu-ruan and sunah. the men doing it need to remember the vast responsility ahead of them. this is a serious matter and one can easily seal your hell fire if not careful.

Surah- Ar-Rum 30-22
"And among His signs is the creation of heavens and the earth, and the difference of your languages and colours. verily, in that are indeed signs for men of sound knowledge." Qu'ran

www.suntoumana.blogspot.com
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mbay

Germany
1007 Posts

Posted - 20 Nov 2006 :  09:48:27  Show Profile Send mbay a Private Message
Indeed right but believe it or not a lots of men´s not only igoring it
but also not knowing the major rules of Islam inculding marriage.
i took it a very quiet of few.
As you said this could be some ones thicket to the hell!


quote:
Originally posted by SANTANFARA

there are a lot of things that islam permit but the men folks are'nt doing them. they single out marrying many wife's just out of desire. i am not against it ,it is allah who permits it ,so my personal judgement cannot overide the qu-ruan and sunah. the men doing it need to remember the vast responsility ahead of them. this is a serious matter and one can easily seal your hell fire if not careful.

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serenata



Germany
1400 Posts

Posted - 20 Nov 2006 :  14:12:02  Show Profile Send serenata a Private Message
quote:
Originally posted by njucks
lol, Kondonrong german is very difficult. but if spoken you can listen carefully and it can sound like english. read Serenata's text in english and you'll see what i mean. its just a short cut

du sprichst Deutsch= you speak german
Ein falsches Wort und = a false word and ..
hast du ein blaues Auge = and you have a blue eye

thats all i can do, but basically Serenata is threatening him

Njucks, my compliments for your German, but of course I didn't mean to threaten Lemon Time! I was just teasing him, referring to what he had said about Germans before, and in another forum.

Edited by - serenata on 20 Nov 2006 14:17:48
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njucks

Gambia
1131 Posts

Posted - 20 Nov 2006 :  15:23:45  Show Profile Send njucks a Private Message
quote:
Originally posted by serenata

Njucks, my compliments for your German, but of course I didn't mean to threaten Lemon Time! I was just teasing him, referring to what he had said about Germans before, and in another forum.



well Serenata. to be honest i can say i try but i have no german at all. i have always wanted to learn german but there is/was no where one can do this in The Gambia. i think this is sad.

we have an Alliance Francais through which many gambains have been able to learn french to their advantage and do other cultural cooperation and understanding.

unfortunately there is no Goethe-Institut in The Gambia and i think this is very sad. is there a way of getting them to open one there???

personally, i think the closer the relations The Gambia has with Germany the better for her, which ever way you look at it. from tourism to the environment to education!!!!
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kobo



United Kingdom
7765 Posts

Posted - 20 Nov 2006 :  16:34:52  Show Profile Send kobo a Private Message
Njucks there was one German language program through Goethe-Institute from the German Consulate, and don't know what happen next post 1994.
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jambo



3300 Posts

Posted - 20 Nov 2006 :  16:51:43  Show Profile Send jambo a Private Message
alliance francais, is this for the general public or is a private institute.
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serenata



Germany
1400 Posts

Posted - 20 Nov 2006 :  17:33:28  Show Profile Send serenata a Private Message
Njucks, the German government is cutting down expenses, so I fear they won't open a new Goethe-Institut in Africa. As far as I understand the current discussion maybe in Asia, where the new money is.... But you could ask at Auswärtiges Amt:

http://www.auswaertiges-amt.de

If you want to learn German: A German friend of ours is moving to Casamance in January. She is an interpreter and a teacher; if you are interested and if a trip to Casamance/Gambia is possible for you or her I could ask her if she would like to tutor. She is very experienced in teaching 'Deutsch für Ausländer'; she did this in Germany for long years!
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njucks

Gambia
1131 Posts

Posted - 20 Nov 2006 :  21:55:39  Show Profile Send njucks a Private Message
quote:
Originally posted by serenata

Njucks, the German government is cutting down expenses,


Serenata perhaps if she comes to gambia give her my ad.

but you see the problem. cutting down expenses on education & cultural exchanges which promote understanding and stability but increasing expenditure on military expansion and posting troops all over the place which promote warfare.

and some wonder why there is no peace.

Jambo Alliance francias is for everyone.Kobo i'll check it out
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