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gambiabev
United Kingdom
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 Posted - 10 Jul 2007 : 22:47:10
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I have recently noticed Jambo posting more than me. This is partly because the topics havent interested me so much, and partly that my focus has changed! I have met a new man.Tonight has been difficult. I told my ex husband. He was lovely about it all.
I am never going back to my ex husband, but love him like a brother,
WOuld like sex guidnace.
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anna
Netherlands
730 Posts |
Posted - 10 Jul 2007 : 23:59:07
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| Sex guidance??? Bev, are you OK - you sound strange, to say the least. What's Jambo got to do with it?? |
When an old African dies, it is as if a whole library has burnt down.
Amadou Hampate Ba (Mali) |
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inez
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Posted - 11 Jul 2007 : 02:44:52
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hahaaaaa Bev you are so funny, The new love, is he gambian? What is there you need to know about sex now? Please, it´s easier to help you if you are more specific...I have only one advice to give you right now, keep your legs together very tight until you guys are married. This is so funny, sorry if you didnt mean it as a joke. |
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gambiabev
United Kingdom
3091 Posts |
Posted - 11 Jul 2007 : 08:19:47
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Was a joke!!!!
My new man is english and 57.
I am still going to Gambia to Kolior once or twice a year, depending what I can afford. I am booked to go with students and my daughter in November.
I will still be reading Bantaba every day and posting when I get chance, but Jambo its over to you now as the lead postings person!  |
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sab
United Kingdom
912 Posts |
Posted - 11 Jul 2007 : 10:36:12
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| Well, there will not b to much 'internet sex relevations' postings from Jambo, cause his too busy with 'LIVERPOOL' now the football is coming upon us & travelling to Guinea! |
The world would be a poorer place if it was peopled by children whose parents risked nothing in the cause of social justice, for fear of personal loss. (Joe Slovo - African revolutionary) |
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jambo
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Posted - 11 Jul 2007 : 10:38:26
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  do you think i am the lead postings, do I get a prize. glad to hear you are going back to gambia. Stay focused on your project its for the benefit of the community and that is never lost. As for the other subject, i think life is okay, just be careful, watch your manners and most importantly if if DOUBT dont try it.  . |
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inez
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Posted - 12 Jul 2007 : 21:09:04
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I knew it I´m so happy for you, hope everything will go well with the new man. Enjoy your life with him!
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Originally posted by gambiabev
Was a joke!!!!
My new man is english and 57.
I am still going to Gambia to Kolior once or twice a year, depending what I can afford. I am booked to go with students and my daughter in November.
I will still be reading Bantaba every day and posting when I get chance, but Jambo its over to you now as the lead postings person!
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jambo
3300 Posts |
Posted - 13 Jul 2007 : 15:19:54
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| congrats bev, glad you are happy. |
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tapalapa
United Kingdom
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Posted - 15 Jul 2007 : 20:53:51
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Bev, dont ~"Put all your eggs in one basket" Dont give up the things you enjoy just because you have met someone- It means that the things you usually do dont matter anymore ?
Enjoy all you do, notjust one thing.
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Sister Omega
United Kingdom
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Posted - 16 Jul 2007 : 23:30:56
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Congratulations Bev,
I see your love pendulum swung completely in the different direction. I hope this time around your happy. Go girl
Peace
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Peace
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kayjatta
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Posted - 17 Jul 2007 : 07:50:07
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| Is Jambo the new guy , Bev ? No I am being silly i guess.... What happened to the Gambian guy ? |
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gambiabev
United Kingdom
3091 Posts |
Posted - 17 Jul 2007 : 08:22:01
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The Gambian guy lied to me about being connected to someone who didnt know him at all. I found him out to be a 'conman'. He still protests his love for me, but I have no trust of him.
The english guy is lovely. I know his background from my friend that has known him more than 10 years.
But it is early days, 4 weeks on Saturday!
I won't put a man before my friends, family and interests, so it is hard to find enough time for him.
Part of me is VERY HAPPY. Part of me still thinks its a bit soon to be settling down. A day at a time I guess is the answer.
I have been divorced for 18 months. But was married for a very long time.
Quite like my freedom.
I have just read a very saucy book about the sex life of a single girl and her adventures. A bit of light relief from the presure at work.
I was thinking about doing the equivalent for the newly divorced middle aged women. It wouldnt be outrageous, but could be a light holiday read on the beach with a bit of fun and irony in it.
WOuld it have the 'happy ever after' ending or would she end up with her dog and cat asleep on her bed every night????
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anna
Netherlands
730 Posts |
Posted - 17 Jul 2007 : 09:19:13
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| Are you thinking of writing 'elderly-chick-lit'?? Please Bev, do us a favour and concentrate on your new relationship. See what reading the 'saucy' book made you ask for on this forum. Sex guidance indeed! Act your age, woman - but lots of good luck anyway! |
When an old African dies, it is as if a whole library has burnt down.
Amadou Hampate Ba (Mali) |
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kayjatta
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Posted - 17 Jul 2007 : 09:35:41
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Bev you are as young as you can think and imagine. I wrote in one of my poems that "age is not a logical thing". But I hope Dalton will not ask me to post that poem on Bantaba.
Any way you seem so full of it-romantic kind of. I am not so good at sex , that is why I write poetry ; but hey have fun while you can! |
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gambiabev
United Kingdom
3091 Posts |
Posted - 17 Jul 2007 : 10:45:45
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Anna.....I thought there might be a market for something more for my age group. FICTION of course!
lease dont take what I write SO SERIOUSLY. We can still have some fun at our age, surely?
KAyatta, I wasnt just taking about sex. These journal type books cover the whole dilema of dating. eg speed dating, meeting people on line, texting and so on...dating in the modern world.
Dating in the modern world as a newly divorced person is a whole new world. What are the 'rules'? Are they different for men and women and from age group to age group? Lots of interesting themes to explore.
When I was a teenager I lived a tame, quiet suburban life. I met my husband when I was 19. I had a few boyfriends that I met on nights out in town. Easy, straightforward and uncomplicated. Then I was off the dating scene for about 26 years. Alot has changed. It is very interesting to observe the differences. |
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kayjatta
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Posted - 17 Jul 2007 : 11:20:29
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| Bev I have not dated for the past ten years . I have been trying to stick with one woman. I get scared almost to death by the thought of having to date again if somthing happens ; but I think by-and-large we should just follow our instincts , you know evolution probably has hard-wired us for this thing. |
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