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toubab1020
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 Posted - 22 Jun 2007 : 16:39:00
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Originally posted by serenata
I think you mean both, men and women... But UUUH, I forgot: Men never grow old...  
 Quite right,we dont we are always handsome good looking and wanted!!! |
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Babylon
Sweden
691 Posts |
Posted - 22 Jun 2007 : 16:40:31
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Sere, I dont anything worse than old men who think they are young! Sitting in the bar checking out girls younger than their daughters. ewwww!
Forgot itīs midsummers eve. Have to go drink some vodka now... |
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serenata
Germany
1400 Posts |
Posted - 22 Jun 2007 : 16:45:34
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Burp! Sorry, I mean 'Skål!' Have a nice midsummers eve!!  |
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Babylon
Sweden
691 Posts |
Posted - 22 Jun 2007 : 17:02:37
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| Skål!!! Thanx alot Sere! |
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inez
279 Posts |
Posted - 26 Jun 2007 : 18:28:21
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hahaaaaa...Babylon, you canīt be serious, grow up and donīt come and talk about respect as it is something one should get on birthday present when 40, respect is something that someone in your age allready should have. My kids are turning to 11 and 16 and they never comment or laugh about other peoples looks and they really are beautiful all over. Are you saying my club nights should be over? Nope and nope,I donīt really care what young people think of that since they all will grow old one day and then they will understand that nothing magical really happen with your inside when you turn 40. And I think that itīs mostly young girls/women that might find it funny to see a dinosaur enjoying herself, that is the only thing you kids do when you go out, look at other people and compare, thatswhy u call it "clubscene"? We can relax and let it show and guys come and dance with us, many of them complain about younger women since they are so insecure and demand someone to fill their egos all the time, we donīt need that since we have life of our own and personality allready. If I like to dance to reggae until im 90 I will do it, no matter what or who wants to laugh at me. Actually I did behave more granny when 17 so I have allready baked my cookies for one lifetime. Itīs really funny too that most of my friends in 30es has less energy than I do and they are the ones getting home early from the club because they get so tired while I can dance until 4...could it be that they get tired when comparing their looks with others and putting on more make up all night long when I give a **** and dance my ass (big)of. Life is funnier now than when I was younger and only because I donīt let my life be affected of some stupid complex. A pink miniskirt is something I never wear today and never did when younger, even my daughter wear more decent things than that, taste doesnīt come with age, eather you have it or not. Stop waisting your time and life with talking about other peoples ages and looks, it doesnīt make you happier. And seriously, when you laugh at "old people acting young", is that a laughter that makes you feel happy and good inside or does it just poison your mind? Why should you even go around and care about other people? Real beauty is inside of the person and itīs not any wrinkleless cover, there is so much more in life. Think about it for real! Now I will check up some tickets to some festivals, do you think they give a discount to oldies in their 40esOr do you think I need two tickets since Iīm overweight too...omg, two crimes in one, how can I live with myself...hahaaa
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Originally posted by Babylon
What is old? Well, I think that when you turn 40 you should start behaving like a grown up. Meaning: coming down to earth, keep your feet on the ground, THINK, look decent (dress your age, not in your daughters pink miniskirt because you dont look good in it) be respectful (especially to yourself) and things like that. Maybe even start to bake a cookie or two..
One thing is for sizzle; You no longer belong on the clubscene, if you still wanna go be prepared to meet young people who think you are a dinosaur. No need to get hurt over that fact. Whatīs real is real, you aint the bomb anymore.
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anna
Netherlands
730 Posts |
Posted - 26 Jun 2007 : 18:58:50
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Inez, very refreshing and funny - i loved your posting.
Babylon, your postings have the arrogance of youth - one day you will be 'old' too.
I see beautiful and sexy young women, and i see common and worn out ones. I see beautiful and sexy elderly women and i see common and worn out ones (i am not talking about the video, which i know to be an old one that we have seen before and the women in there make me feel ashamed for my sexe, particularly their stupidity). It has to do with inner harmony (good for you Inez) and 'style' which you have or don't have, no matter what age you are.
I would like to see myself as a personality, not as a bomb - attracting people who are attractive and exciting themselves takes a bit more than the perfect body.
When in the Gambia, i see Gambian boys/men sitting at tables in restaurants with white women of all ages. It is sometimes painful to see how these Gambians radiate boredom, because the women (of all ages, i say it again) have nothing worthwhile to talk about or are not in any way fascinating. |
When an old African dies, it is as if a whole library has burnt down.
Amadou Hampate Ba (Mali) |
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jambo
3300 Posts |
Posted - 27 Jun 2007 : 11:11:47
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| Inez, loved the postings. |
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Babylon
Sweden
691 Posts |
Posted - 27 Jun 2007 : 13:36:01
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Inez, if you are so selfsecure and secure about your age then why do you feel so offended by my postings that you have to defend yourself PLUS diss all the younger women? That talk about how guys think you are so much better than young women is just a lie, if you think it is true then you need a reality check. As we all know, a man can say whatever just to get you in bed...
You say: "We can relax and let it show and guys come and dance with us, many of them complain about younger women since they are so insecure and demand someone to fill their egos all the time, we donīt need that since we have life of our own and personality allready".
Are you saying that young women donīt have a personality or a life of their own? What BS. There are girls in their 20īs running their own businesses!
If a guy had to chose between a young fertile woman and an old women past her menopaus naturally his choise will be the younger woman, becuase that is the most natural thing to do. Just simple biology of human nature.
The truth is that we live in a superficial world, that is the reality. UNFORTUNATELY. People are first judged by their looks and then their personality. As the saying goes: Looks attract people but only personality makes them stay.
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gambiabev
United Kingdom
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Posted - 27 Jun 2007 : 19:49:53
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An attractive person is someone who radiates personality from within.
When I was young I was shy and self conscience. As I grow older I am more confident, more comfortable in my skin, less bothered about what others think. I live more in the moment and I am happy. I am no beauty queen and I am not size zero. But I like to think I am interesting and I am interested in others.
I can't speak for everyone, but in my 40's I have had loads more men interested in me than in my teenage years. They seem attracted by my self assuredness and my independence. I am not needy, so if I am with them it is through choice. That is quite flattering.
In my 40's I am a women, in my teens I was a girl and in my 20's and 30's my main role was wife and mother (ie invisible).
In all honesty, if I could go back in time I wouldnt. But if I could stop the clock around now I would. My 40's have been full of interesting people and travel and an interesting job. Difficult times, but good times too. I love being alive.
Babylon.....when you are 35 40 wont seem so old. Age is a state of mind. My grandma is 94 and looks after the old people in her area that are actually younger than her!!!
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LEMON TIME
Afghanistan
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Posted - 28 Jun 2007 : 13:48:08
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| Wow its good that you feel this way,life begins at 50 init. |
There is no god but Allah |
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MeMe
United Kingdom
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Posted - 28 Jun 2007 : 15:17:44
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Inez, I laughed out loud at your posting which shows that humour at least is ageless  Babylon could learn a thing or two from that .... by the way, methinks there's more to her venting about the 'older woman' than meets the eye .... a bitter pill perhaps? |
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kisley
United Kingdom
214 Posts |
Posted - 28 Jun 2007 : 16:52:30
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"Do not regret growing older. It is a privilege denied to many" |
Edited by - kisley on 28 Jun 2007 16:54:16 |
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toubab1020
12314 Posts |
Posted - 28 Jun 2007 : 18:06:14
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Originally posted by kisley
"Do not regret growing older. It is a privilege denied to many"
Those words so profound they have a beauty about them,is it a quote or words you have thought of on your own? |
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anna
Netherlands
730 Posts |
Posted - 28 Jun 2007 : 18:10:18
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| Yes fantastic! I wrote them down immediately! |
When an old African dies, it is as if a whole library has burnt down.
Amadou Hampate Ba (Mali) |
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inez
279 Posts |
Posted - 28 Jun 2007 : 19:18:34
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Babylon, I was just telling you about my reality and trying to teach you something you have missed in life. I think I didnīt diss all younger women, maybe their behaviour but not their looks and that is all what matters today, didnīt you say so? I think all young women are beautiful but when they show no respect is less beatiful. There are some strong young women with lotīs of personality and they are not the ones who keep themselves occupied by old peoples looks, they are educated by something else than MTV. And when I say personality and life of their own, I donīt talk about how succesfull they are with their business.
So I must still be a bomb if they tell such lies to get me to bed? Or maybe somebody told them that grown up (old) women has more to give in bed too, more experience and less "oh, donīt look at me from that angle, I look so fat" No seriously, that kind of talk doesnīt do me anything if used as a foreplayIt might have occured as a afterplay, not sure, but I donīt really believe that every man talking to me wants to have sex.
And then to the biologi lesson from you. Did someone tell you that menopaus is the fact when you get 40? Nobody ever told you that some, kind of young guys, allready have children with a "bomb" and donīt want to have more and then is perfect with somebody who doesnīt believe that a new baby will make the relationship perfect and to last forever? Itīs easier sometimes with my kids and your kids when there is not our kids, you often get time alone when kids are with the other parents.
The truth is that we can choose what kind of life we want to live no matter how superficial the rest of the world might seem to be. We donīt need to teach our kids to blindly follow everything they see or hear just because "everyone else does". Think how it would be today if everybody followed and accepted Hitlers ideas of looks?
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Originally posted by Babylon
Inez, if you are so selfsecure and secure about your age then why do you feel so offended by my postings that you have to defend yourself PLUS diss all the younger women? That talk about how guys think you are so much better than young women is just a lie, if you think it is true then you need a reality check. As we all know, a man can say whatever just to get you in bed...
You say: "We can relax and let it show and guys come and dance with us, many of them complain about younger women since they are so insecure and demand someone to fill their egos all the time, we donīt need that since we have life of our own and personality allready".
Are you saying that young women donīt have a personality or a life of their own? What BS. There are girls in their 20īs running their own businesses!
If a guy had to chose between a young fertile woman and an old women past her menopaus naturally his choise will be the younger woman, becuase that is the most natural thing to do. Just simple biology of human nature.
The truth is that we live in a superficial world, that is the reality. UNFORTUNATELY. People are first judged by their looks and then their personality. As the saying goes: Looks attract people but only personality makes them stay.
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