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inez
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 Posted - 28 Jun 2007 : 19:22:51
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Bev, I agree on every word you are saying, that is how I feel too and many other has said the same thing. You forgot one thing though or you are just shy even the sex is better!
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Originally posted by gambiabev
An attractive person is someone who radiates personality from within.
When I was young I was shy and self conscience. As I grow older I am more confident, more comfortable in my skin, less bothered about what others think. I live more in the moment and I am happy. I am no beauty queen and I am not size zero. But I like to think I am interesting and I am interested in others.
I can't speak for everyone, but in my 40's I have had loads more men interested in me than in my teenage years. They seem attracted by my self assuredness and my independence. I am not needy, so if I am with them it is through choice. That is quite flattering.
In my 40's I am a women, in my teens I was a girl and in my 20's and 30's my main role was wife and mother (ie invisible).
In all honesty, if I could go back in time I wouldnt. But if I could stop the clock around now I would. My 40's have been full of interesting people and travel and an interesting job. Difficult times, but good times too. I love being alive.
Babylon.....when you are 35 40 wont seem so old. Age is a state of mind. My grandma is 94 and looks after the old people in her area that are actually younger than her!!!
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inez
279 Posts |
Posted - 28 Jun 2007 : 19:34:10
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Think you are right, why else all that heat over "older women"? She should be grateful we go out and amuse them since it will make them look so much younger or in the other hand, she will be grateful for that on her 40th birthday if she doesnīt spend that day on some clinic for depression or botox shots.
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Originally posted by MeMe
Inez, I laughed out loud at your posting which shows that humour at least is ageless  Babylon could learn a thing or two from that .... by the way, methinks there's more to her venting about the 'older woman' than meets the eye .... a bitter pill perhaps?
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Babylon
Sweden
691 Posts |
Posted - 29 Jun 2007 : 00:10:27
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Inez, you seem to want to take this to a more personal level right? Who the hell are you to judge me and my "mtv education" after my opinions on older women running after young boys?
I donīt give a **** about you or your sexlife or if men think you are hot or not or if you **** better than a young girl because you are fat and dont care, I only said that these older people in the video going to clubs after sex disgust me. AND THEY ARE DOING IT ON TV! So I thought they should learn be more selfrespectful especially in their age because people in general think they are weird. Obviously they dont mind how they portrait themselves and I see alot of women like this hanging around and yes, they usually have no class or manners what so ever. And yes, they are of all ages and they have a bad reputation among african men for being too easy.
Easy women always get laid, may they be ugly or pretty. Some men dont care, they will even **** a dog if they cant get a woman.
Stick to the topic woman! |
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Babylon
Sweden
691 Posts |
Posted - 29 Jun 2007 : 00:39:36
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Oh and by the way, africans in general do care a lot about appearence. How you look, dress and act is an important part of african culture. Even in islam the women are taught to take care of themselves and their beauty. The women who totally missed that point are usually the white ones who are always single... Aint it funny...
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MeMe
United Kingdom
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Posted - 29 Jun 2007 : 10:30:23
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"Aint it funny..." ooooh, Babylon ... quoting J-Lo lyrics???!!! And her only 2 years away from that deadline for women to stop being women that you keep quoting ... shame on you hahaha  |
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Babylon
Sweden
691 Posts |
Posted - 29 Jun 2007 : 12:15:01
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| Who is J-Lo? |
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Babylon
Sweden
691 Posts |
Posted - 29 Jun 2007 : 12:21:34
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Oh yeah now I remember J-lo... Doh, did I forgot all I learened from my Mtv education??? shame on me indeed. |
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lorribe
9 Posts |
Posted - 29 Jun 2007 : 14:20:26
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| Well out here turning 47 looking 35 honest, still wearing mini skirts, cause dam i look good in them. Grandmother of 10 months. Have struck up relationship with guy from The Gambia,never had sex or even kissed. He is 29 loads of emails texts and phone calls. He is 29 am I mad to think this can work. We've been in constant contact on a daily basis for 15 months. |
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lorribe
9 Posts |
Posted - 29 Jun 2007 : 14:24:18
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Sorry first post and repeated myself a bit . Thought I'd point this out - some ****in goin on here |
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lorribe
9 Posts |
Posted - 29 Jun 2007 : 14:29:13
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| Does this make me a sex tourist? |
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MeMe
United Kingdom
541 Posts |
Posted - 29 Jun 2007 : 14:40:48
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Originally posted by lorribe
Does this make me a sex tourist?
I'm sure there will be plenty replies to help you decide if you are or aren't, Lorribe Stand well back as this folder is going to go on fire soon .... |
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anna
Netherlands
730 Posts |
Posted - 29 Jun 2007 : 15:07:16
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Welcome Lorribe and good luck, keep using your brain though.
Can't wait to read Babylon's reaction. |
When an old African dies, it is as if a whole library has burnt down.
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jambo
3300 Posts |
Posted - 29 Jun 2007 : 15:36:02
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| lorribe, are you mad, probably, is he looking for something, like a visa to the UK, who knows, if you both have a common ground, education, financial, religion, classs then you are okay but if YOU HAVE ANOTHER MOTIVE TO VISIT GAMBIA, then you will reap what you sow. RIGHT NOW THE SUN IS SHINING ON THE RELATIONSHIP, hmmmmmmm, thinking about bringing to your country for a holiday, check out the websites before you make ay payments, but MOST OF ALL THINK BEFORE YOU MAKE PAYMENTS. |
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Babylon
Sweden
691 Posts |
Posted - 29 Jun 2007 : 15:55:55
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I did some mtvstudying today and found the perfect song 4 all the hoīs outthere. Hey ho, mtv rocks...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SIM4DCn7AlE
Unfortunately I didnīt see any old freaks in the video... To be continued...
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Babylon
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