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twinkly



United Kingdom
190 Posts

Posted - 18 Mar 2007 :  10:43:12  Show Profile Send twinkly a Private Message
quote:
How you do it is your business but there is no need to start shouting here ok? So long your women agree to this its ok but how do think it is for women coming here and not even knowing how to read or write...how will they be able to agree or not when not knowing what it will mean to them and there children?


Oh these pooooor women!!!!!!!!!!
How dare you assuming that Alhassan will treat them in any bad way?
Guilty until proven inoccent?Of course,because he is
1, a man(every man is bad isn't it?)
2, a black man
3, an african(how dare he live his culture, when the poor women suffer every minute of the day)

Inez, many huzzlers coming to Europe can't read or write but they are men and came on their own free will.A woman could never decide anything because the decision has been made by a man for her?

I'm so sick and fed up with these toubab attitude and ignorance SORRY!!!

JUST ACCEPT THE FACT THAT THERE ARE MEN IN THIS WORLD WHO TREAT THEIR WOMEN GOOD.
Just because you lost your common, basic human senses doesn't mean you have to force your hateful thoughts on the decent people left.
I am tired of these discriminating, disrespecting words.
Just shut up for once if you don't understand and obviously you don't!!!and just read and learn.

Why can't you just accept the fact that IN GENERAL GAMBIANS AND MEN IN GENERAL ARE GOOD, DECENT HUMAN BEINGS.COME OFF YOUR HIGH HORSES AND STOP HATING MEN AND GAMBIANS.

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anna



Netherlands
730 Posts

Posted - 18 Mar 2007 :  13:42:09  Show Profile Send anna a Private Message
What are you going on about? Nothing you say makes sense to me, i don't recognise anything in your words. Who's talking about 'bad men'- African, Gambian or otherwise. Really, you're boring. I think you are on a very high horse yourself!

When an old African dies, it is as if a whole library has burnt down.
Amadou Hampate Ba (Mali)
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Alhassan

Sweden
813 Posts

Posted - 18 Mar 2007 :  21:01:45  Show Profile Send Alhassan a Private Message
quote:
Originally posted by inez
ok ok, I leave you alone, my purpose was never to attack you, just to say my opinion which I will be able to do even without you asking for it. I told you about how this happen in Sweden and it´s mostly done between somalians. How you do it is your business but there is no need to start shouting here ok? So long your women agree to this its ok but how do think it is for women coming here and not even knowing how to read or write...how will they be able to agree or not when not knowing what it will mean to them and there children?


Inez,
I cannot answer your question because the women I know are not in the situation you are talking about.
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inez



279 Posts

Posted - 19 Mar 2007 :  14:24:03  Show Profile Send inez a Private Message
quote:
Originally posted by Alhassan
I cannot answer your question because the women I know are not in the situation you are talking about.



Good luck and take care/ Iza
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inez



279 Posts

Posted - 19 Mar 2007 :  14:28:26  Show Profile Send inez a Private Message
quote:
Originally posted by twinkly

quote:
How you do it is your business but there is no need to start shouting here ok? So long your women agree to this its ok but how do think it is for women coming here and not even knowing how to read or write...how will they be able to agree or not when not knowing what it will mean to them and there children?


Oh these pooooor women!!!!!!!!!!
How dare you assuming that Alhassan will treat them in any bad way?
Guilty until proven inoccent?Of course,because he is
1, a man(every man is bad isn't it?)
2, a black man
3, an african(how dare he live his culture, when the poor women suffer every minute of the day)

Inez, many huzzlers coming to Europe can't read or write but they are men and came on their own free will.A woman could never decide anything because the decision has been made by a man for her?

I'm so sick and fed up with these toubab attitude and ignorance SORRY!!!

JUST ACCEPT THE FACT THAT THERE ARE MEN IN THIS WORLD WHO TREAT THEIR WOMEN GOOD.
Just because you lost your common, basic human senses doesn't mean you have to force your hateful thoughts on the decent people left.
I am tired of these discriminating, disrespecting words.
Just shut up for once if you don't understand and obviously you don't!!!and just read and learn.

Why can't you just accept the fact that IN GENERAL GAMBIANS AND MEN IN GENERAL ARE GOOD, DECENT HUMAN BEINGS.COME OFF YOUR HIGH HORSES AND STOP HATING MEN AND GAMBIANS.





Oh Twinkly, I love you too. Maybe you have been dreaming or need some medication? I think your posting is only showing your own poisoned ideas because I can´t regognize any of them as mine. And I am reading and I am learning..but will you ever be able to do that?
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Momodou



Denmark
11738 Posts

Posted - 19 Mar 2007 :  18:08:45  Show Profile Send Momodou a Private Message
Its tragic that the husband is now dead. Read the story “Husband Dies from Burns of Boiling Oil
Allegedly Poured on Him by Wife” in The Point at: http://www.thepoint.gm/headlines1793.htm
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LEMON TIME



Afghanistan
1295 Posts

Posted - 20 Mar 2007 :  02:09:14  Show Profile Send LEMON TIME a Private Message
Wow,Guys be warn that your wives don't want you to have a second wife.Its a sad news indeed.

There is no god but Allah
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mbay

Germany
1007 Posts

Posted - 20 Mar 2007 :  08:29:08  Show Profile Send mbay a Private Message
I AM SORRY FOR THE AMUSEMENT I MADE ABOUT THIS TRAGIC STORYS!

INDEED A TRAGIC !

MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE AT THE SAME TIME FORGIVING HER TOO , FOR SURE THIS WAS NOT HER INTENTION , THIS MIGHT BE ANOTHER SIGN FOR HOW POWERFULLY SATAN IS!



quote:
Originally posted by Momodou

Its tragic that the husband is now dead. Read the story “Husband Dies from Burns of Boiling Oil
Allegedly Poured on Him by Wife” in The Point at: http://www.thepoint.gm/headlines1793.htm

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salimina

253 Posts

Posted - 20 Mar 2007 :  08:31:05  Show Profile Send salimina a Private Message
LEMON JUICE, what a sad news indeed.What a waste of life!May his soul rest in peace.

Edited by salimina
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Alhassan

Sweden
813 Posts

Posted - 20 Mar 2007 :  09:14:48  Show Profile Send Alhassan a Private Message
quote:
Originally posted by salimina

LEMON JUICE, what a sad news indeed.What a waste of life!May his soul rest in peace.


Grand Nyan RIP. I knew him very well as we lived as neighbours in Göteborg.
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salimina

253 Posts

Posted - 20 Mar 2007 :  09:19:36  Show Profile Send salimina a Private Message
ALhassan, accept my condolence as well. Neighbours are relatives.

Edited by salimina
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anna



Netherlands
730 Posts

Posted - 20 Mar 2007 :  10:14:40  Show Profile Send anna a Private Message
Alhassan, i am truly sorry. I am trying to figure out what was in the woman's mind. Maybe she wanted to disfigure him, so no other woman would want to look at him. The man must have died in agony. I cannot imagine you would want to inflict such pain on someone you once loved (i presume). If my partner would announce he wanted a second wife, i would just leave him and set him free.

When an old African dies, it is as if a whole library has burnt down.
Amadou Hampate Ba (Mali)
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Alhassan

Sweden
813 Posts

Posted - 20 Mar 2007 :  10:39:02  Show Profile Send Alhassan a Private Message
quote:
Originally posted by anna

Alhassan, i am truly sorry. I am trying to figure out what was in the woman's mind. Maybe she wanted to disfigure him, so no other woman would want to look at him. The man must have died in agony. I cannot imagine you would want to inflict such pain on someone you once loved (i presume). If my partner would announce he wanted a second wife, i would just leave him and set him free.


Anna,
You are human and belive that you can always find love. This woman must have been desperate or they might had some arguments. Marrying a second wife is not a good reason fore what she has done. I hope she gets a maxmium punishment from the law.
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LEMON TIME



Afghanistan
1295 Posts

Posted - 20 Mar 2007 :  12:13:48  Show Profile Send LEMON TIME a Private Message
As i always said ONE WIFE ONE PROBLEM,TWO WIVES TWO PROBLEMS guys put it in mind.

There is no god but Allah
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serenata



Germany
1400 Posts

Posted - 20 Mar 2007 :  20:30:38  Show Profile Send serenata a Private Message
This tragic death is really shocking. I am not too fond of men who take a second (third, fourth...) wife and expect their first wife of living with them. Women are not cows who don't care if you put another cow into the stable. But it is not necessary to kill the man. Like Anna, I would leave such a husband (if I were economically independent), and let him be happy with his new wife.
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