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toubab1020
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 Posted - 11 Nov 2011 : 12:10:18
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Bet you thought this was political  ............errrrrrrrrr........no........ but a useful point of view this man talks sense ! 
http://observer.gm/africa/gambia/article/common-mistakes-we-make-in-relationship-part-ii
Common mistakes we make in relationship "Part II"
Africa » Gambia
Friday, November 11, 2011
Control of man’s life leads to reformation, which is forth mistakes woman do make in a relation. Women believe they can reform men to what they think is right for them, no and it is capital NO because it is always difficult to change men.
Either rich or poor if you are falling in love with a man, fall in love with him for who he is, and if you do, do not ever think you can change him. Because the moment you are trying to let him know or feel that he is not your liking the relationship is about to hit the rock.
So a man always feel happy and comfortable with his partner if she can accept him for just the way he is not for what she want him to be because reformation of man cannot be done by any woman most time, unless the man is ready to reformat himself.
The fifth common mistake is that some women are too aggressive and some romantic men like teasing or cracking jokes even surprises women especially those they are attracted to.
Because it is one of the good ways a man can have a free ride to the heart of a woman he found interested or attracted to. And it is another way a man can cheer-up his partner, so woman do not rock the love boat or spoil the romantic moment, make fun!
Number six mistake is that woman want to be attached with her man 24/7, some men do not want this as some women hate it too. Give your man breathing space, create a chance and opportunity for him to miss you as absent makes mind fonder.
Because too much attachment can make him fed up or not missing your absent. Make him miss you and look for you choking him with yourself will slowly run down the love like FM radio station will run down batteries fix in a radio.
So thinking of this, do not take his simplicity for granted, it is the seventh number of common mistakes women always make in relationship. Forget about short-term or longevity of the relationship, you should never take your man simplicity for granted.
Try to always light up your relationship in a romantic form. Give or do what he want for him, as you want him to do for you, surprise him with great gifts, trying something new in the bedroom with him as this make the relationship healthier.
Whatever the case might be, avoid this number eight mistake, that is do not be too forward because action speaks louder than words. The reasoning is different from each other; avoid being Miss Too Know.
So learn to be a good listener and how to communicate decently, intelligently and effectively by making it balance in point. Because too forwardness is a two way process that can harm or safe the relationship but depend on how you can apply your wisdom.
This number nine mistake is not permanently in this number it can be one, two or so but be careful about it. This is because it brings many problems nowadays between boys and girls in love especially when they do not know how to cover their ass.
That is always not be on phone or receives men’s calls before your partner. Most women are not intelligent enough, they do this all the time especially those women that are used to chatting or so. When you are with him give him maximum attention that will make him secure that no one is going to take you away from him, by reducing the number of calls you make and receive.
Number tenth mistake this week is that you should not make yourself a dependant because there is nothing that quickly chases man away from a woman than being a dependant woman. Many men hate this.
Men love and respect independent women without reservation, they find independent woman so romantic, caring, cherish and lovely than dependant woman. Ponder over the above common ten mistakes your friends, neighbors even you might have fall in one or two in the past in one of your relationships.
Whatsoever, know that there is no one that is perfect but endurance, tolerance, understanding and positive decision are the key to a successful relation. If you make any mistake in your relationship either you are a man or woman, try to feel remorse and apologize to your partner. Do not feel too proud or big to say ‘I am sorry’ which is acceptable. Forget about the pride ‘sorry’ does not hurt but it safe your relation.
Author: Yunus Saliu
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"Simple is good" & I strongly dislike politics. You cannot defend the indefensible.
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