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twinkly
United Kingdom
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 Posted - 18 May 2006 : 10:50:19
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Thank you dear sister, your kind words made me sleep peacefully yesterday after reading Gambiabevs hurtful words.
I have great respect for Islam and am determined to become a good Muslim.After much thinking I can only come up with the truth, I am not disciplined enough, I need to learn so much still about Islam.I want to learn Arabic and do things properly.It is not hard for me to be a good person, it is all in human nature and comes naturally to me, but the knowledge is not there yet. Writing this, I feel I'm just making excuses, but your kind words give me a big push and am determined to move on now.Thank you so much
Gambiabev, I don't think that just because we live in a harsh world we should be harsh aswell.
Do good and good will follow.......even in this harsh world of ours
But it seems that nowadays it is not cool to be nice anymore.
I will keep refusing to follow that trend no matter what.Your words may hurt me but I am not the one to judge you, no matter what you throw at me,I will still see the good in you (and people)first.
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kobo
United Kingdom
7765 Posts |
Posted - 18 May 2006 : 11:12:11
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Originally posted by jambo
Momodou why do you think i am being deceitful. Gambiabev babygirl, very tired right now. This bantaba has changed.
Momdou I did not lie openly but made a mistake. does that make me deceitful.
You made mistakes but not expressed remorse and expressed your apology for them. Some members are reading between the lines and certain expressions, inconsistencies and double standards reflects from their lines of thoughts and eyebrows usually raised trying to captivate their persona etc. |
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kobo
United Kingdom
7765 Posts |
Posted - 18 May 2006 : 11:24:34
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Originally posted by twinkly
Thank you dear sister, your kind words made me sleep peacefully yesterday after reading Gambiabevs hurtful words.
I have great respect for Islam and am determined to become a good Muslim.After much thinking I can only come up with the truth, I am not disciplined enough, I need to learn so much still about Islam.I want to learn Arabic and do things properly.It is not hard for me to be a good person, it is all in human nature and comes naturally to me, but the knowledge is not there yet. Writing this, I feel I'm just making excuses, but your kind words give me a big push and am determined to move on now.Thank you so much
Gambiabev, I don't think that just because we live in a harsh world we should be harsh aswell.
Do good and good will follow.......even in this harsh world of ours
But it seems that nowadays it is not cool to be nice anymore.
I will keep refusing to follow that trend no matter what.Your words may hurt me but I am not the one to judge you, no matter what you throw at me,I will still see the good in you (and people)first.
Twinkly thanks for these sweet words. My advice to you is; no one is perfect no matter how properly you try to maintain your good qualities of life. Continue that good spirited person you are seen to be, to be tolerant and compassionate, understanding and reasonable, inter alia and reap the positive benefits from them with peace of mind. |
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jambo
3300 Posts |
Posted - 18 May 2006 : 11:24:36
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Kobo, point taken. i had thought when someone had pointed out a mistake to me I acknowledge it and apologised. perhaps you can give me an example of where i did not do this.
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kobo
United Kingdom
7765 Posts |
Posted - 18 May 2006 : 11:33:26
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Originally posted by jambo
Kobo, point taken. i had thought when someone had pointed out a mistake to me I acknowledge it and apologised. perhaps you can give me an example of where i did not do this.
Thanks to appreciate my advice. However try to clarify with Mommodou about the time Bantaba existed and set the records straight and move on |
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bamba
Sweden
401 Posts |
Posted - 18 May 2006 : 11:35:49
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Twinkly, no-one can take your kind heart away from u. U cant help being kind. If people are kind, they are kind, thats where it stops. My mum used to tell people opposed to her kindness towards others that she couldnt help it, that's the way she was.
Gambiabev is a confusionist and an erratic personality. She claims to be a philantropist yet urging u to be harsh. Where does one place such a person? There are many shady characters here in Bantaba.
Babylon is outspoken, that's her problem too. Being outspoken is one of the humane qualities that led Olof Palme to his demise. |
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njucks
Gambia
1131 Posts |
Posted - 18 May 2006 : 12:06:09
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Bamba i hope you have a good lawyer? and/or lots of money....................
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Babylon
Sweden
691 Posts |
Posted - 18 May 2006 : 12:12:53
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| Ok, let me be outspoken again... Kindness is what we need more of in this world. However, being docile is not the same as being kind. Some docile people let others walk all over them and thatīs just sad to witness. |
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kobo
United Kingdom
7765 Posts |
Posted - 18 May 2006 : 12:19:20
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Originally posted by Babylon
Ok, let me be outspoken again... Kindness is what we need more of in this world. However, being docile is not the same as being kind. Some docile people let others walk all over them and thatīs just sad to witness.
I love you too Babylon! LOL! |
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kobo
United Kingdom
7765 Posts |
Posted - 18 May 2006 : 12:27:09
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Originally posted by njucks
Bamba i hope you have a good lawyer? and/or lots of money....................
There are no valid legal cases in this foraa am afraid! Its an open door policy for anyone to exercise "freedom of expression" 100% within your limitations. Don't makes us sick as we need all kinds of rubbish and raw materials(any opinions whether positive or negative) to transform them into and prcocessed material (structured ideas, solutions and resolutions) to clear any doubts in our minds and for educational purposes. |
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serenata
Germany
1400 Posts |
Posted - 18 May 2006 : 12:28:11
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| Is it really necessary to be either 'wolves' or 'lambs'? The call for the homogenous personality which is either 'good' or 'bad', 'weak' or 'strong', etc. is nothing but a childish desire for simple, easy to read structures. We all have to stand inconsistency, as we ourselves ARE inconsistent. If we play the role of a 'wolf' or a 'lamb' it doesn't mean that we really are only one or the other. I myself mistrust persons who seem to be all soft, all understanding, all 'good'. Accent on 'all'. |
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jambo
3300 Posts |
Posted - 18 May 2006 : 12:31:51
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| Momodou, I made a mistake and will ask for clarification when was Bantaba set up. |
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Babylon
Sweden
691 Posts |
Posted - 18 May 2006 : 12:32:29
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Originally posted by kobo
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Originally posted by Babylon
Ok, let me be outspoken again... Kindness is what we need more of in this world. However, being docile is not the same as being kind. Some docile people let others walk all over them and thatīs just sad to witness.
I love you too Babylon! LOL!
Oooh, thank you sweatheart! |
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Momodou
Denmark
11712 Posts |
Posted - 18 May 2006 : 12:33:07
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Originally posted by jambo
Momodou why do you think i am being deceitful. Gambiabev babygirl, very tired right now. This bantaba has changed.
Momdou I did not lie openly but made a mistake. does that make me deceitful.
Jambo, you have lied by asserting that Bantaba existed for ten years and I believe you would also doubt any person you catch lying about you. Accept my apology if my use of the word deciteful if it does not fit you. However, I need an answer how you came to this conclusion "i hope Kiwi01 comes back. After 10 years of being on the bantaba it would be wrong for them to leave because of one person." |
A clear conscience fears no accusation - proverb from Sierra Leone |
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Babylon
Sweden
691 Posts |
Posted - 18 May 2006 : 12:35:32
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| I meant SWEETheart! I have Keith Sweat in my mp3 player, thatīs why... |
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