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Santanfara
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 Posted - 05 Feb 2009 : 11:50:19
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www.suntoumana.blogspot.com.
This is a sensitive subject. please let's not disclose the parties involve or the area they. the subject can be discuss on a general basis to warn others of irresponsible behavours. You may have already read the topic on my blog.
Wednesday, 4 February 2009
Gambian Women Film by a pervert Nigerian whilst Cohabiting them
By Suntou Touray
This is not a message for the faint hearted. Our country Gambia is small but has passionate historical past. The Gambia many will say has strong cultural and moral values entrenched in her inhabitants. Human beings are equal in the eyes of God. No single human is better than the other, either by virtue of race, colour, tribe, culture, country or any other basis for that matter.
As a nation, Gambians like reminding other nationals that we are a tolerant, spiritual and kind hearted people. Our open door policy in absorbing different cultures made us such that, what we tend to value most are slipping away from the tips of our fingers.
You may be wondering what on earth this blabber talking about.
Well intelligent folks, the Gambia is said to be a secular state, with a secular constitution and civil society. But culturally, we are a religious nation. This is manifested in both our private and communal behaviours. The negative action of one Gambian can easily tarnish the reputation or image of the nation we all love and cherish.
This is no sermon folks. I am not a religious scholar to preach either. I am a fellow Gambian educated in the same schools like the many out there who are more qualified and better articulate to convey this sad and abhorrent message. What is the message?
It has come to the attention of some people that some Gambians have been caught up over a sex scandal in U.K. The parties involved are women. Their involvement relates to a Nigerian man who used to live in Gambia . This man is said to have married a Gambian woman. The man is well respected by the People of the town he married the young lady from. After living in the Gambia for sometime, the Nigerian man immigrated to England. He arranged for his wife to join him in the U.K.
What was not known is that the man has a secret life. His friendliness and outwardly respectful behaviour was to mask his promiscuous life. The man is said have bedded string of Gambian women whilst still married with his Gambian wife. Going to bed with Gambian women may not sound like crime per say. Those women have personal liberty to sleep with whoever they so desired. What is of concern regards the fact that this man secretly filmed all his targets and held the copies in his house. Some of the women involved are married women who are today fighting to save their respective marriages.
The pornographic video is said to be uploaded on the Internet and some are even suggesting that, the films might be the man’s normal business for living. His friends and acquaintance are saying the man stopped working for long time thus arousing suspicion that he sells or uploads the films of innocent women on the net to gain money.
You may wonder how much this becomes your business or mine. Good to question though. As a Gambian Muslim, it is a religious duty and a nationalistic duty for us to do our best in promoting and preserving the good name of our country. On my part, the intention here is to caution fellow Gambians that we are from noble people and good backgrounds. The freedom modern societies avail us shouldn’t be a license to waste our lives and along the way tarnish our collective images. This case is said to be under police investigation as there were some young girls involved in the scandal. What is it that makes a married Gambian woman abandon her marital house for fooling around with another married Nigerian man? Our society is seriously in need of repairs. This shameful act is not limited to women alone. Men are also into questionable acts as well. What happens to the Wollof doctrine of ‘self-respect’, the Fulla philosopher of ‘shame’, the Mandinka principle of ‘shunning disgrace’, the sarahuleh conduct of ‘hard work and upholding religious ethics’? What has gone wrong with all those golden Gambian values?
Each and every one of us has in us an in-built ‘fitrah’ (in born faculty of reason.) This confers in us the ability to distinguish what is morally right and what is wrong. Having sexual intercourse with a Nigerian man may not be seen by some as crime. However when the man films you unaware and then sell it is illegal and morally bankrupt that is something to worry about. For the sake of our faith we are miles better to control our behaviours and watch what we do. Life is too short to waste.
At this crucial time, the matter is bigger than being judgemental of each other. The underlying reason for this act might be many folds. The man could have induced these women with money or other material seduction. Sadly the outcome of this moral corrupt behaviour is separation of married couples and incurring on the parties involves untold shame and guilt. The wider ramification here is not about the nationality of the man. He could have been a Gambian or Senegalese for that matter. The saga has exposed the failing of some parents who never utter a word of advice to siblings in Europe or America . All that some parents ever enquire about is when will they receive their allowance in monetary benefits.
The culprit who film is conquest is said to also film other non-Gambian women he had intercourse with. Some concerns Gambians are said to have watch the video in a police station to subside the rumour of some innocent women suspected of being part of the collection.
I hope that our moral ethics and religious faith lead the way for us wherever we are. May God guide our actions. Amen
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Surah- Ar-Rum 30-22
"And among His signs is the creation of heavens and the earth, and the difference of your languages and colours. verily, in that are indeed signs for men of sound knowledge." Qu'ran
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Edited by - Santanfara on 05 Feb 2009 11:51:47 |
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kayjatta
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Posted - 05 Feb 2009 : 12:08:51
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Wow what a story. The fall out could indeed be serious for some families ...
You know they said "katatoo la kungko, moo moo la baleng keleng bi jeleh", right? |
Edited by - kayjatta on 05 Feb 2009 12:25:58 |
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toubab1020
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Posted - 05 Feb 2009 : 12:45:09
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"katatoo la kungko, moo moo la baleng keleng bi jeleh", right?
Err........No......... not right Kay, I Dont know what they say,don't speak the language
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"Simple is good" & I strongly dislike politics. You cannot defend the indefensible.
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kayjatta
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Posted - 05 Feb 2009 : 12:47:02
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| Okay I quit Toubab1020 ... |
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toubab1020
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Posted - 05 Feb 2009 : 13:31:38
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Oh No! please not before the translation!!!  |
"Simple is good" & I strongly dislike politics. You cannot defend the indefensible.
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mansasulu
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Posted - 05 Feb 2009 : 18:57:11
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With my little understanding of mandinka and translation I am gonna give the translation a shot and be direct as possible.
"Every one has a ploughed ridge in the farm/field of a troublemaker."
Meaning in short noone is immuned from the harm of the troublemaker...(my |
"...Verily, in the remembrance of Allâh do hearts find rest..." Sura Al-Rad (Chapter 13, Verse 28)
...Gambian by birth, Muslim by the grace of Allah... |
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kondorong
Gambia
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Posted - 05 Feb 2009 : 19:18:26
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| One rotton potato spoils the whole bag or as they say in Nigeria, When one finger is dipped in palm oil, it soils all the others |
“When I despair, I remember that all through history the way of truth and love have always won. There have been tyrants and murderers, and for a time, they can seem invincible, but in the end, they always fall. Think of it--always.” |
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toubab1020
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Posted - 05 Feb 2009 : 21:08:22
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Ah.....Thanks for that ,
There is a similar saying in England, It says basically that one rotten apple in a barrel can spoil the whole barrel,how strange that so many languages have very similar sayings.I think I remember someone posting a topic about this some time age. |
"Simple is good" & I strongly dislike politics. You cannot defend the indefensible.
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LEMON TIME
Afghanistan
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Posted - 05 Feb 2009 : 21:31:32
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| When can we get to see the film then????? |
There is no god but Allah |
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toubab1020
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Posted - 05 Feb 2009 : 21:55:30
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Originally posted by LEMON TIME
When can we get to see the film then?????
Here is the film: DELETED.
I have removed the link to U tube as it has offended some posters,on reflection I have gone off topic and I apologise for that. |
"Simple is good" & I strongly dislike politics. You cannot defend the indefensible.
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Santanfara
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Posted - 05 Feb 2009 : 22:16:41
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Originally posted by LEMON TIME
When can we get to see the film then?????
ask around lemon in some english police stations, be careful there are some young girls in the film. i wouldn't think you will encourage pervasion, would you? considering your intelligent postings, i don't think you will waste your precious time on such. |
Surah- Ar-Rum 30-22
"And among His signs is the creation of heavens and the earth, and the difference of your languages and colours. verily, in that are indeed signs for men of sound knowledge." Qu'ran
www.suntoumana.blogspot.com |
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Dalton1
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Posted - 05 Feb 2009 : 22:30:36
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Santa,
By all standards, whether moral, religion, cultural...or even whatnots, the criminal is just a joke. If it is without their consent, how on earth...how dare...and how dare he does the rubbish?
I pray not to see a face I know in this video when I search for this particular clip. |
"There is no god but Allah (SWT); and Muhammad (SAW)is His last messenger." shahadah. Fear & Worship Allah (SWT) Alone! (:
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Santanfara
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Posted - 06 Feb 2009 : 11:00:26
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quote:
Originally posted by toubab1020
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Originally posted by LEMON TIME
When can we get to see the film then?????
Here is the film: DELETED.
I have removed the link to U tube as it has offended some posters,on reflection I have gone off topic and I apologise for that.
Toubab, i can't see any expression here that the youtube video of Apple indicate to offend. we are all adults here i suspect, so folks can handle divergence in serious topics. please feel free to take part in any topic you fancy. remembers many of us lived and work and know the western and our cultures indept. we can handle many other issues that you may not know about. cheer up mate. |
Surah- Ar-Rum 30-22
"And among His signs is the creation of heavens and the earth, and the difference of your languages and colours. verily, in that are indeed signs for men of sound knowledge." Qu'ran
www.suntoumana.blogspot.com |
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Santanfara
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Posted - 06 Feb 2009 : 11:02:43
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quote:
Originally posted by Dalton1
Santa,
By all standards, whether moral, religion, cultural...or even whatnots, the criminal is just a joke. If it is without their consent, how on earth...how dare...and how dare he does the rubbish?
I pray not to see a face I know in this video when I search for this particular clip.
Indeed Mowdo yero. The vidoe contain members of Gambians as well Jamican and other nationals. The guy video several ladies unknowning. I hope the ladies be aware of tricky guys. |
Surah- Ar-Rum 30-22
"And among His signs is the creation of heavens and the earth, and the difference of your languages and colours. verily, in that are indeed signs for men of sound knowledge." Qu'ran
www.suntoumana.blogspot.com |
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toubab1020
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Posted - 06 Feb 2009 : 11:43:37
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Originally posted by Santanfara
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Originally posted by toubab1020
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Originally posted by LEMON TIME
When can we get to see the film then?????
Here is the film: DELETED.
I have removed the link to U tube as it has offended some posters,on reflection I have gone off topic and I apologise for that.
Toubab, i can't see any expression here that the youtube video of Apple indicate to offend. we are all adults here i suspect, so folks can handle divergence in serious topics. please feel free to take part in any topic you fancy. remembers many of us lived and work and know the western and our cultures indept. we can handle many other issues that you may not know about. cheer up mate.
Thank you I note what you say but I still made a mistake in that I went off topic and its understandable that some people may have thought that I was making fun of the original very serious posting that was not my intention,it was mearly a connection with Rotten Apples. |
"Simple is good" & I strongly dislike politics. You cannot defend the indefensible.
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